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the ideal Frenchman in the Anglo Saxon world isn't well dressed, he's chic which means he looks at ease in whatever he wears.he must have a stunning accent, he should come from the south. an ideal Frenchman can cook , is athletic, drinks in moderation , knows the best wine, restaurants ,is romantic never ,needing to be forward ,confident ,attentive, intellectual, is existential, for another man if you can bridge the culture gap the best friend you'll ever find. Gilles marini an french actor in American TV is tall dark handsome in the french way ,can dance ,charm older woman ,is good with kids, intellectual, moody , chic an illusion come to life -what more do you need . the reaction in the Anglo Saxon world, men pretend to hate him but envy him secretly , women adore him without resevations .a cliche definitely, but cliches exist for a reason. beneath every cliche is a grain of essential truth,about life and the eternal quest for the impossible ideal, without that quest we are nothing. .the antithesis of french male chic and self assurance is sarko .the fact he's of hungarian descent might explain a lot, as frenchness is more than appearance its a state of mind